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DISMANTLING THE TWIN FLAME MYTH, ADDICTION

4/3/2016

 
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​Many folks in the new age community would have you believe in a concept called a twin flame relationship. If you haven’t heard of the twin flame or twin soul concept, it is understood as another human being serving as the other half of your soul. As the myth goes, each of us has only one twin flame, which after being split, the two souls went their separate ways, incarnating over and over again to have a human experience before reuniting to ascend together. Sounds like the stuff of fairy tales, right?
 
Another source says that each side of the twin is a complete soul but their task is to become more complete in reuniting, balancing the feminine and the masculine together. How does that make any sense? You are either a complete soul or not. Complete is an absolute; there is no more or less complete. Furthermore, our inner divinity is neither masculine nor feminine. The soul does not know or operate within dualities, opposites or separations. If we are searching for our masculine or feminine counterpart, we need to go no further than looking within, toward the soul.
 
Nothing short of the Cinderella or Snow White tales, the myth would have you believe the twin flame relationship as the most fulfilling relationship on Earth, which comes with sacred sex, spiritual super powers and a happily ever after ending. Yet, in this twin flame community, they explain that there is usually a ‘runner’ in this reunion. They tell you the other person is scared or not ready. The worst part about this is the person who believes the other person is their twin flame will put up with all sorts of emotional and spiritual abuse from the person in question. They believe that if they are just patient enough and put up with enough bullshit the soul in question will return to them and the magic list of twin flame benefits will activate, basically fixing everything. And the cycle goes on and on with a never-ending search for this magical partner, delivering enlightenment.
 
Friends, I tell you this is one hell of a fairy tale, equally as alarming as the concept of prince charming coming to save Snow White from the evil witch. The first thing wrong with the twin flame myth is that you are a complete, sovereign being regardless of the relationship you happen to be in. Second, finding this so called twin flame is by no means a requirement for self-actualization/ enlightenment/ ascension, which really is nothing more than completing your cycle of lifetimes on earth through integration of all parts of yourself and in complete love for and acceptance of yourself. If you’re running around looking for your ‘other half’ in a panic, I promise ascension will not even be an option. The ‘other half’ is you!
 
I wasn’t introduced to this concept of a twin flame until 2013 after a spiritual awakening. I’ll admit it was one hell of a tale that mesmerized me. In 2014, I met a man and our connection blew me away. “Could this be him, my twin flame?” I thought. Cue damsel in distress mentality. Fortunately, just days after our meeting, I was scheduled to fly to Costa Rica, where I was volunteering at a sea turtle rescue and writing my book, Becoming Sar'h: Book One.
 
One night, I was walking down the beach in an electric storm. The sky was illuminating every 30 seconds or so with the brilliant pink and purple glow of the lightening strikes. Yeshua (some of you may know him as Jesus) and I were walking barefoot, side by side down the black sand beach. Yeshua visits me – like thousands of other people – on occasion. I said to him, “Do you think this man could be my twin flame?”
 
Before we had been joking and laughing with each other. Yeshua has quite the sense of humor. After the question, he became quiet and contemplative.
 
“Lauren, what does your soul tell you about twin flames?”
 
Like any good teacher, Yeshua showed me where to look not what to see (I learned from the best), so I reached deep within for the answer.
 
“My soul tells me I AM my own twin flame,” I said, waiting to see if this was what he was looking for.
 
Yeshua flashed a smile that seemed to radiate from his heart. I knew I had not disappointed him. Together we finished our walk in silence, and I basked in the honor and respect my teacher and friend had for me.
 
Later, I would find out through a series of dreams that this man and I had experienced many lives together, and we had a lot to remember and learn from one another in this lifetime. It was a huge gift to have found each other – one we had planned before incarnating again. Yet, if I had been in throws of the twin flame myth, and I had been chasing after the romantic notion of him completing me, I would have missed all the lessons and joy of sharing our experiences – something that has brought me great joy over the course of our almost two-year-long reunion. He remains a great friend whose opinions I trust, and I’m so glad I did not miss that.
 
Technically, this man would fit into the new age concept of soul mate. One source says these human souls are our ‘soul family’ reincarnated whom we have many lifetimes with and who help us evolve and dissipate karma. Further more, soul relationships have another category called karmic relationships. These are relationships with souls, we’ve shared past lives with and met up with again to heal the past and help each other evolve.

I don’t disagree with being open to these relationships helping us evolve and release karma (or you could just evolve and release the karma alone, but I digress...). My resistance to them is what happens when our human aspect – the one who has been trained to believe that there is another human out there who will fix everything – starts creating stories around the people we meet. I have seen it turn beautiful, advanced, sovereign souls (men and women) into blubbering, sad, angry humans over and over again. I know because I have been sucked into the construct before – especially in several recent past lives.

Here’s how it usually happens: we meet someone and instantly know it is significant. We – either on our own or with the help of a psychic reader – identify someone as one of these relationship categories – twin flame, soul mate or karmic relationship in our heads. We attach stories and expectations onto the person whose soul is so very familiar to us, and then we are upset when that person doesn’t want to participate at the depth we expect or vice versa.
 
We or they choose to either wait around for the other person to have an awakening and continually put up with their abuse, hanging onto some small amount of hope that they will realize the relationship. Or, we jump from person to person, hoping this one will finally be it. Either way it becomes an addiction, a huge distraction from the soul’s journey and especially detrimental to the self-actualization process, should that be your choice in this life.
 
Just recently, in my own inner exploration, my soul showed me a trap door. He/she/it said, "You can open this door to fully to experience the love I, soul, have for you, the beautiful, funny, spunky, sometimes really bitchy human aspect called Lauren. Are you ready?”
 
I was, and I did. I went within and opened the trap door unable to know what to predict. That’s because I had no idea what kind of love would pour out of the door. If anyone had every loved me to the point of human extreme, it was my father. It’s the most powerful form of unconditional love I have experienced in this life - and my only gauge. Well, the internal soul love for me, the human, was like that times infinity. Words are beyond limiting for the love I experience(d).
 
Today I spend hours basking in that self-love. I do not long for or want a steady romantic partner in my life. My time alone is too precious. I’m too busy wrapped up in being in love with me. (I know – BARF – but it’s true). Maybe one day I will experience a human relationship with someone else who has opened his own trap door to the ineffable love of soul. I won’t settle for less than that. Two sovereign beings sharing a life experience no matter how long it lasts is the only way to go for me.
 
Friends, your souls are calling. That longing you feel for love and recognition from lovers, friends and/or family – that’s really your soul calling you, requesting ever so patiently for you to finally start the internal relationship he/she/it has waited so very long for. Won’t you consider opening the door? I promise those external, sometimes mythical and mostly addictive relationships will not even compare to the amount of LOVE the soul has for you, the human.

This is what moving from the new age into the new energy is all about. You are sovereign. You are your own creator. You are complete.

Will it fix everything? NO.
Will you still have bad days?  YES.
Will you become immediately enlightened? PROBABLY NOT.

Yet, life is a hell of a lot easier when you operate in the self-love between soul and human. 

Self-love is essential in the journey to return to your true creator nature.

How can you be a master creator when you're not head over heels for yourself?

Published in March 2018, the Thirty Days of Self-Love book and interactive journal is available for FREE download at www.becomingsarh.com. That's how passionate I am about it. 

Also, since writing this post so many years ago - the most read post of all time - I will update you that I have been in a beautiful relationship with another sovereign being for almost two years. We are loving sharing our realization with each other in this beautiful last life. We have no stories about our relationship. It doesn't take any work to maintain. We simply enjoy BEING together. There is no strife or struggle involved and never has been. 
David link
5/19/2016 12:02:28 am

beautifully written, Lauren. I was drawn to the title of your post as it reminded me a post I myself wrote about this topic: "The myth about the Twin-Soul". http://www.lovush.com/the-/2006/4/14/the-myth-about-the-twin-soul.html#.Vz1VypErKhc
I believe the more people recognize these notions within themselves the easier it will be for their human-aspects to deal with the hardships of relationships. This material should be taught in Schools! :-)

Lauren
5/20/2016 08:52:18 am

Thanks, David. I agree. There's so much missed in school, but then again I guess we wouldn't have had the experience of going through the realization that we are god, also. I will go check out your article.

Queenmehru
10/25/2017 08:14:02 am

I'm so sorry for writing this Lauren, but baby you know 0% about twin flames and twin souls.... I'm so sorry for you you are just a kid for this subject...... I would recommend you to read about Romio juliet, Lela majnu and many more legends are there for these concepts answer.... You must study that baby first.

Celestina
10/25/2017 08:24:05 am

Oh dear me. As one thoroughly in a twin flame relationship...we did not know what to call it at first...rest assured there IS such a thing. Between mature, stable individuals with much life history behind them and not daydreamy flight of fancy new agers. Solid folks that join at the soul and grow and become the best we can be because of this extraordinary bond. We searched for a term to fit our remarkable bond and finally stumbled on twin flame. At last! It makes sense...This IS we. We ARE this. Twin flame is much more than love or any human term for emotion. We revel in it and feel so blessed and fortunate. This is forever and we and our separate lives and our separate various friends and our separate families are much much better because of this. We share Twin Flame with those about us. We cannot but help it.

Candai
11/3/2017 08:59:38 pm

It's totally understandable that you don't get it. I battle with this regularly because I don't know how I got to be a Twin Flame, but from my experience I am. I wanted for things to go back to the way that they we're before I meet him. I still find this journey to be a battle between my intellect and my heart. If your not going thru it you will NEVER understand. I've tried talking to my friends and I know that don't get it because they sound and speak just as you do. There were times where I'm just like screw these feels I'm OUT! But I can't escape them. I had a good life and then he came along and now there's this battle of intellect vs heart. No one can put into words the immense joy that your heart feels when you meet this one person and I wouldn't be attracted to my twin flame at all under regular circumstances he's way older and a prude to be nice. but I look into his eyes and my heart is happy. I'm open minded enough to see where this goes, but for now I'm just going to continue validating myself and being the best person that I know how. I believe in this ONLY because I experienced the bond and the connection. Whether you believe me or not is none of my business. I can testify to it being a real thing in my life. Main because I've done everything to deny this connection.

Heartful
2/7/2018 11:30:30 am

I absolutely agree with Queenmehru.

Lauren, you are obviously a conscientious, mindful, spiritual individual. I enjoyed reading your post, however, it became immediately evident that you have not experienced a twin flame connection. What you're describing doesn't come close to what it's like to be a twin flame or to meet your beloved. Many of us on this path weren't even aware of the concept of twin flames until we were opened by these experiences.

Best of luck to you with your activist mission and you're writing.
Sending with much love.

Jodi
11/23/2018 09:22:39 am

QueenMeru... Lauren is bang on. Go deeper; you'll find you ARE your twin flame.
Only then will any of us be able to fully share ourselves and our love with another balanced, sovereign soul, who also recognizes their own "twin within".
We "choose" who we love... who best mirrors our own inner love back to us in any moment of our lives.
Anyone who has every loved us shows us a window to our own self, the love of our own soul for our whole being.

Sara
12/8/2018 04:49:27 pm

Totally agree with Jody. I finally healed and let go of this said twin person and the reality was the experience was about me finding myself and loving myself. It was never about being with him. Once I did this understandably my vibration raised bc I healed and he fell away. I no longer desire him. Because he fit who I was and the lack of self love I had, I outgrew him and I outgrew this and thankfully the connection ceased

Mary
12/31/2017 01:35:30 pm

Years ago I was interested in the spiritual world. I believed in God and Jesus, but also reincarnation, ascension, and communicating with spirits as well as animal communication. I was working with several spiritual counselors including a Shaman. A spirit came to me as my Twin Flame. The joy I experienced with God and my Twin Flame were immeasurable. This lasted for. 3.5 years.....then my "Twin" was taken from me and the light spiritual beings I was dealing with 'turned' on me. I was tormented by hundreds of demons for a year and a half. I came to learn that ALL of the beings I was dealing with were demons...that God was not with me, and that most of what I believed for most of my life was not true. The Truth. Is, there are no 'good' spirits talking to us, only demons imitating light and love in order to draw people into their web of darkness and destruction. I learned that spiritism is an abomination to the One True God much in part for this reason. If you are dealing with 'spirits' you are gambling with your eternity. There is no such thing as Twin Flames and the Only spirit you should seek is God, Jesus, and He does not appear as you say Lauren. You are dealing with demons imitating Jesus and anyone else that will thrill you and inflate your pride. Trust me I know what I am talking about. If you want to know the Truth, pick up a Bible and ask the Jesus of the Bible to show you the Truth. Your life on earth and eternity are at stake.

Chaide Elwood
3/25/2018 08:18:18 pm

There is no such man as Jesus. He is a myth.

Chippy
4/8/2018 12:18:00 am

Bahahahahahaha hahahahahah Mary that was the best read ever!!
Think it best you do your research love, the bible eas created by man.. at the council of nicea...

Mary
6/24/2018 05:05:14 pm

I agree completely with this warning and would like to add to it. The only spirit that is of God that would “speak” to you is the Holy Spirit, should you want to listen. And the only message from God is the one in the Bible. Jesus would not appear to you or speak to you in that way for that’s the purpose of us receiving the Holy Spirit, by Gods Grace and his terrible sacrifice for all of us.

You do not have guides, angels don’t come to us when we call them, there’s no past lives or reincarnation. Please pray to Jesus for help closing any chanels you may have intentionally opened which do not lead to God, and to the Holy Spirit to guide you to a full understanding of the Bible’s message and Gods Truth.

Do not be deceived into trying to see beyond the words of Christ. God did no send us his only son to be brutally sacrificed so that we could be saved and to then forget to mention anything we were meant to know.

The Devil has many faces, he’s the master of lies and deception and has no issue with presenting itself in a disguise of spirituality to take you away from the true light of the only God. If you want to know for sure ask those spirits, guides, angels etc to say that Jesus was the encarnated son of God and that he died for our sins and was resucitated. You’ll find they won’t, because they are not of God.

Please be careful in your search for God, do not be deceived. Do what God told us to do through Jesus words and you will know Him fully and will always be safe. Peace and love

Reva
7/20/2018 10:38:49 am

I'm sorry you are garunteed incorrect. I would know. I'm in a twin flame relationship. And trust me when I say it is real.

Jazzy
7/21/2018 03:19:32 am

Well written.. but you haven’t met your twinflame ;). The surge of transcendent self love you experienced ... that is what twinflames feel for themselves as well as one another. It’s one in the same. If you are able to compartmentalize that love away from the “other” person- they’re simply not your twinflame. Sounds like a lovely soul mate as you describe. And it’s true- twins in separation very much need to go within and experience the frequency of love that is ALWAYS available to them regardless of whether or not they’re in physical union with their twin In the present moment. But the fear your describing of people becoming addicts because of the. Twinflame concept.. that discomfort.. that suffering, passes. Twinflame love is a journey within as well.

Steven Ringelstein link
9/17/2016 01:40:41 pm

Thank you Lauren for sharing this myth, I couldn't agree more. 7 years of celibacy and the journey into self-love was the door that led to the most love I have every experienced with all aspects of my multi-dimensional being and all of life.

I was inquiring why we come here to the consciousness of separation, after all we are coming from the consciousness of ONE. I learned that in separation consciences you can get intimate with the many aspects of your being. The question who is the “I” that I speak on behalf of led me to discover and love the so many aspects of my being that together form the tapestry of my I AM Self. What a delightful, decadent ecstatic journey of self-love.

When I couple self-love with the law of ONE, I find myself making love to all life. On this journey I discovered "life without a story", pure essence of my being.

Funny that you mention Yeshua, this is how I call him too when he shows in my life, he speaks part Aramaic and part Hebrew to me.

I have learned that when a man and a women put themselves in a container called relationship, twin flame, soul mate, whatever, and constantly projecting their inner disturbances and wounds on each other trying to resolve and fix the other results in a loss of freedom to be and to create. We are complete being within ourselves and failure to know that is coming short of knowing the I AM Self! The ONE that you already are.

I am left curious to learn about your version and practice of self-love, maybe we can compare notes?

Love

Steven

Karen Kalena
9/19/2016 11:49:38 am

I jumped to this topic on your blog site as an email friend of mine seems to be immersed in this twin flame concept, and it just didn't resonate with me. I do resonate with what you have written here. We are sovereign in and of ourselves, and are here discovering and expanding our self love. I don't know if you've run across the speaker/author Matt Khan, but one of the things he says is that whatever you want from another person, give that to yourself. I've used that more than once to great success. If my human is experiencing disappointment in relation to someone else, I ask what it is I hoped to receive from them that I did not get, and then give that to myself. Most often it is some form of love and acknowledgement. :) So yes, self love and the deepening of self love rocks!

LAUREN
9/19/2016 11:52:03 am

Karen, thank you! When working with clients that is always my first question in any relationship issue, what were they giving you that you can't give yourself? I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt all wrong about this concept.

Queenmehru
10/25/2017 08:16:28 am

Only the matter is people them Selves didn't know what is happening cos there wasn't so much education up one twin souls...... It it self is the matter of souls so it has to be complecated.

Glinda link
9/20/2016 05:18:25 pm

Hi Lauren: you are absolutely right- no one can complete us but us. And once we reach a certain level of consciousness, everyone is our twin flame. You are however, taking issue with the twin flame myth, and not the twin flame reality. We are one androgynous soul while in spirit, there is no 'half' of a soul, because a soul can't be divided. There is a masculine charge and a feminine charge of the soul, and upon incarnation the soul becomes either male or female to experience duality in this universe. Twin flames incarnate more often together than any other soul relationship, and our twin is just as likely to be our mother, or father, or child as they are to be a husband or wife. A twin's presence in our life signals an opportunity for immense spiritual growth that no other soul can offer. The twins do not separate and roam the earth only to come together on their last incarnation, that is absolute myth. A twin flame relationship can be one of the most complicated relationships you will ever have, and can be a path to immense spiritual growth.

Lauren
7/27/2017 01:29:23 pm

Whatever works for you, Glinda! That sounds cool and expansive.

Lauren
9/21/2016 11:44:27 am

You know, we could go on for ages about all the terminology. Our experiences with other people - if we allow them & no matter what we label them - prep us for the big finale in which we experience the ineffable love of self. Instead of seeking things outside of ourselves, we can provide everything we need for ourselves instantly. In being full of self love, we become experts at radiating and are no longer just receivers in our existence. We expand, become infinite and step into our mastery, joining the estimated 10,000 other masters who have completed their cycle of lifetimes on Earth. No need to get hung up in the details (for me). Feedback appreciated, Glinda!

Thomas
9/21/2016 01:37:05 pm

Thank you Lauren for sharing your story here!

This subject is about an actual and strong implanted believe – and I am sure that this is an interesting topic for so many of us!

Therefore I would also like to share my experience here.

I met a person I felt so much love for which was not comparable to anything else in my life before. Then I heard of the twin-flame myth, which made it even stronger that this person still played a major role in my life - although we had no contact at all anymore. This continued for a long time. I still had the impression – and this was very strong - that one day we will come together, after we have completed ourselves, everyone by him- /herself. Although I knew that this would be complicated and not easy and I also got a lot of feedback from my outside that this would be very hard to be finally possible – I stayed on that. It still felt very well for me.

But still - nothing was really changing, and it did never happen that we came together.

It was very tricky for me because I knew for myself that I should trust myself. So I continued in that believe as long as I felt well with it. And I followed my inner deeper self what came up to do.

What really happened was that by still sticking to the believe that I would finally meet this twin flame of mine I just kept on playing the game of duality. And this gave me also a hard time in so many areas in my life and hindered me to get moving into my real flow.

Even by knowing that I kept on with my believe.

You will ask why I did that?

Because it also served me.

Now I can say that clearly and it also served the other person - in bringing up consciousness in each of us. I (or in truth we) did it that way. By using the game of duality. There is nothing right or wrong with that, it is just a possibility to choose.

But there was never the goal behind here that we will finally come together as a couple.

And to realize it completely, this extraordinary love I felt for this person was nothing else than the love of and to myself. This is just the real truth behind that.

After realizing that within myself, everything was solved. No need to stick on that believe of the united twin flame, no need for seeking outside anymore. It easily just dissolved with grace. A huge release - sure with sadness in it because the believe was so strong – but with also big joy for myself coming up very soon then.

Because of that experience I had I can truely say that there is no other twin flame waiting for you to finally become unite.

The only unity is found in yourself. With allowing the love for yourself coming up fully. And that is much more love than ever experienced before.

And this love for yourself seeks then to be expressed by you - over and over again, for all it’s grandness and beauty…

Lauren
9/22/2016 09:59:11 am

Wow, Thomas! Thank you for sharing. Often the love we feel for this so-called twin flame is a great measure of the love we can give to self. AND you already know this. I appreciate your feedback.

David
9/21/2016 10:27:31 pm

Thomas,
Your story resonates well with mine.
I can tell you, based on personal experience, that the type of love and relationship that come after relinquishing the myth and stepping into mastery are more fulfilling. Much more.

Eben
2/16/2017 12:39:19 pm

Hi there. I agree with the bulk of this. I've spent abit of time questioning it myself. I think however it's possible that twin flames do exist just not in the way that we might wish for in a less evolved state. When you mention sharing with a sovereign being it could be with any soul potentially, however also with a soul who was created from the same star or same soul pattern. It's not going to be the emotional hole filling thing. More just a structural thing within the pattern of creation.

Lauren
2/16/2017 02:34:43 pm

Definitely! Well said. Thank you!

Eben
2/16/2017 01:06:04 pm

Another perspective. It is often assumed that the best thing for us is ascension. And that when we evolve we will leave earth for a better place. However this story is not obligatory. We create our own stories in the universe and some would prefer to perfect a balance that is sustainable within the dualistic earthly paradise we have been given. There are no rules and we create how the universe works with our perception. Just how it's revealed in quantum physics. So we can have a beautiful story of self realisation where we are complete with our own self love and never prone to the pitfalls of dependency etc and ascend off the earth. Or we can decide to ride duality like a surfer. Perfecting awareness so we know how it works getting less hurt each time. Knowing love comes in waves and there's always another one to catch. And sometimes you've got to wait for a swell..but you can enjoy the illusion. Enjoy the dualism. Sun on your face. Green grass in your fingers. The rewards of dualism. And the price. Death. The adventure of that danger of mountain lions who live in the mountains where you love to hunt. And the danger of loss. And t he beauty of love as it's fragile and uncertain. The joy of another. The polarity of the sexes. Man and woman on earth with the kundalini and the
Honey of sex. Sweet love in the illusion. But to perfect the illusion with a huge counterpart of awareness. One eye on the infinite source, the creator and one on the myriad beauty of the earthly manifestations. And so we are creators. Master's. And we can choose a twin flame story if we want. How it plays out depends on your awareness. The deeper stories you may or may not know you have. Also you can choose to disappear off to a more spiritual dimension. It's up to us. The universe is eternally fluid.And there are no limits to what is possible.

Lauren
2/16/2017 02:36:06 pm

As a surfer, I love your analogy. Our world is what we create. Absolutely and so well said. Thanks for taking the time to share your words. Surf's up!

Athena Kreig
2/19/2017 09:07:57 am

LOOOL Twin flames and shit is stupid and funny, you go with your intuitions yo lmao XD and as for the divine masculinity or femininity . both the quality exists within the vague definitions created by the human kind , inside our head. lol So If we have to transcend transcend from your thoughts lol, There is soul in the mind not the hearth / :') Yin yang is a concept to help heal your mind aka soul.

and the yin and yang I believe in my opinion is the bad and the good qualities or thought we can produce in one another by coming in contact with each other in a passing relations hip or a friendship. But the yin yang as a whole the feminine and masculinity exists within as, and per as the mystical divine quality of love or twin-flames, it's bullshit. Yeah its easy to rope yourself in that shit in your most vulnerable and lowest moments but to be honest the only thing that counts in a good relationship is the relentless effort from one side and if people truly believed in the mystical quality of twinflames they wouldn't go around talk about a threesomes in these cyber-blogs lmfao. Such stupidity. Amen.

But yes soul does exist. only in the philosophical sciences.it's supposed to be separate from the head, but In my most honest belief ? I tell you our soul is what our thoughts are for ourselves and for others and fr the world around us! You call call that as bullshit. But that's what I believe n and even if it's bullshit I rather prove myself wrong than have anyone else call me out on it ^_^

Lauren Hutton
4/19/2017 01:16:16 pm

Thanks for stopping by and sharing your insights, Athena!

Zaria @ Past Life Regression Chicago link
3/29/2017 04:11:33 pm

Hello Lauren,

You make some very good points on this article. As a past life therapist with many years of experience, I have regressed the true nature of twin flames. First of all, no soul was ripped in half to create a male and female counterpart. What kind of cruel entity or even the universe would do such a thing? It makes absolutely no sense. So what twin flames really are? They are two different souls who have a sacred marriage and they have a karmic relationship because they meet in every lifetime. This means that they have emotional issues that are not solved. It is like every other marriage in this lifetime; if you do not emotionally cut off your significant other, you will never be able to move on to the next relationship. You are absolutely right that twin flames are not far away from the Prince Charming mentality.

Thank you so much for this post! Wishing you all the best!

Zaria

Lauren
4/19/2017 01:13:49 pm

Thanks so much for your insights. For me, once I moved beyond karma - stating the law is not mine - I found I have opened up in beautiful ways. Appreciate you stopping by.

L
4/3/2017 02:31:32 am

...

So ... It seems other's have been speaking of this ... myth.

I guess from what I concur from what you wrote, you understand that this belief can cause much pain for others... But I ask do truly understand the extent of what this has caused ...

Do you truly?

Suicides, madness and destroyed families, murders and cultist idealism. I'd be careful how mention this belief, for there are demons surrounding this that are far beyond anything you might have seen. But again, maybe I'm simply making an assumption. few hear of it because the world tends to glance over these things.

I can't stand and watch. I watch celebrities, cartoons and so many others making reference to this as if its a small matter. And it isn't.

Blood is a payment that man cannot repay, and a soul is something that once lost is unfathomable to behold. I see 'shells,' humans walking about with no faces, with holes in their heart. I personally believe this world has already ended, there is no happiness worth reaching for here. I commend you for this post, but in the end its for naught. This world was condemned when humanity began to seek hedonistic values and walked over each other through troughs blood as if drinking liquor from corpses, all for a dollar.

I see them, I hear the cries of thousands every night. People suffering in ways that only a few can see, a feeling of possession, a wretched hatred that is engulfing everything. And things like this? It feeds off the agony that this causes and it only grows stronger.

Humanity has already fallen.

Seek whatever happiness you may before our end comes, work not in this game of war humanity is striving for and find happiness for yourself. For it is futile to save this place. You deserve it, considering you have the heart to see the pain and at least try something.

You've done better than myself ... than I ever could.

As for myself.

I've grown tired. Tired of the voices, the hollow faces of people screaming, the mad workings of the world that drive me every day into despair. I can't tell if I've lost my ability to feel, or if I've felt too much to bear.

It matters not ...

I seek an end, past death, I simply seek the end of my existence. I never want to come back to this again, never will step into a vessel - and never will I seek to even maintain a soul. I seek non-existence, where there is not even a thought ... where there is not even.

Please, consider your thoughts and ideologies on this matter.
This thing is far darker than it seems.

Take care, and may you find happiness in life.

Lauren Hutton
4/19/2017 01:17:03 pm

Thanks for sharing and stopping by New Energy Creator.

An
9/17/2018 09:34:43 pm

I feel the exact same way..I just want a soul eating demon to put an end to the misery. So they can't do this to me in the next life.

JR
4/19/2017 09:51:28 am

Happy you found solace in this "revelation," but understand, it does not everybody's truth. The biggest drive of the human heart, at the end of the day, is perfect love. Well perfect love does not exist in a plume. It is not a formless vapor and it is NEVER unto oneself....unless you are a narcissist. In order for it to mean anything, it has to be unto another.

There is great debate about who Jesus was and what he stood for. And also whether he, too, loved a woman (I believe he did, in Mary Magdalene). That human beings fail at relationships more often than not is not surprising because the "twin flame", a concept of which I am an adherent, almost HAS to elude us in this life. It's a love that's almost too perfect to be tainted by the prism of our five senses, and by Karma.

I think Plato and most modern day astrologers have it right. We are given many soulmates, but the pinnacle (twin flame) is the ultimate goal. There may be glimpses or inklings of who that other person is, but more than likely, it awaits us in the hereafter when he have shed our physical bodies.

Lauren
4/19/2017 01:11:30 pm

"Understand that is not everyone's truth" - Goodness, No, I certainly hope not. There is no single truth for me. How awfully boring would that be? For the record, my own truths continuously evolve and change. All I aim to do is share my stories and see what it brings up for others. I am the authority on nothing but my own journey, and I encourage others to write their own tales.

We are multi-faceted creatures. I celebrate anyone who has the audacity to allow their 'truths' to evolve and change as they expand. It's really only a symptom of dualitistic society that says you have to have one belief system that never changes. Such a strange concept in the context of consciousness.

I sense that self-love is the ticket for me (everyone else can write their own story) to wholeness/ completeness/ pure consciousness. I would encourage you to take a look at the 30-Days of Self-Love series here on the blog. There's so much more to life than debating twin flame myths.

Oh-Be-Ahn in your love journey, JR! Thanks for taking the time to share your insights.

JR
4/19/2017 08:00:31 pm

Did not read your answer carefully enough, and for that I apologize.

I personally do not think twin flames are a "myth". Just because something eludes us doesn't mean it's a myth. Quantum theory eludes me, as do most things related to physics, but they're hardly mythical.

Great heartache and tragedy are a fact of life. I've lived them like you and everyone else and carry the scars with me. However, these inescapable facts were not an impetus for me to basically "fall in love with myself," thus eradicating all needs outside myself. Sorry, *I* am not enough for *ME*. That doesn't make me self-loathing or weak or lacking in self sufficiency. I simply choose not to be numb or jaded by heartache. Love for another person (the kind of love where our ego is shed) is infinitely more fulfilling than self-adoration.

Philanthropists
7/27/2017 12:24:04 pm

"Happy you found solace in this "revelation," but understand, it does not everybody's truth. The biggest drive of the human heart, at the end of the day, is perfect love. Well perfect love does not exist in a plume. It is not a formless vapor and it is NEVER unto oneself....unless you are a narcissist. In order for it to mean anything, it has to be unto another."

Please don't take what I say as in insult.

But you cannot fathom every mind in humanity.

You may feel like that is the greatest drive of humanity, but that may simply be your own perspective. For some of us out there, this is simply untrue. As you say yourself, this may be the truth for some, but some of what you say is hypocritical, as it inclines that all human beings follow a set preset that is defined by whatever belief system of perspective of life you hold.

My greatest drive in life has never been finding perfect love. Because for myself, 'perfect love,' in an imperfect world, a world seemingly doomed by its own foolishness is meaningless. For myself, my drive was to help others, my greatest drive was to put-aside my selfishness, my desires, to educate and help others. So much so that I swore on an oath of celibacy and a life void of relationship or even what you call perfect love. I hope to teach mankind to open their hearts, so blood may be at least spilled somewhat else, and that we can open our minds and understand that we all have differences and meanings as vast a books we read and fantasies we dream of in our heads.

If beings exist as split souls, let them live their dreams and find whatever happiness they may from it. But please, do not draw me into your perspective and deem me as one of your ideals-as if though I follow all the laws of your spirituality. My own spirit has taught me much different. And that it is much different, and not of the same laws this world seems to idealize so much.

Thank you in advance for respecting my spiritual nature.

Lauren
7/27/2017 01:36:14 pm

Hey, un-named friend - did you see this - I'll share it again...

"Understand that is not everyone's truth" - Goodness, No, I certainly hope not. There is no single truth for me. How awfully boring would that be? For the record, my own truths continuously evolve and change. All I aim to do is share my stories and see what it brings up for others. I'm not here to convert you - just share my peace. I am the authority on nothing but my own journey, and I encourage others to write their own tales.

We are multi-faceted creatures. I celebrate anyone who has the audacity to allow their 'truths' to evolve and change as they expand. It's really only a symptom of dualitistic society that says you have to have one belief system that never changes. Such a strange concept in the context of consciousness.

I sense that self-love is the ticket for me (everyone else can write their own story) to wholeness/ completeness/ pure consciousness. I would encourage you to take a look at the 30-Days of Self-Love series here on the blog. There's so much more to life than debating twin flame myths.

Oh-Be-Ahn in your love journey. That means I honor you in your journey, perhaps you can honor me, too?

Thanks for taking the time to share your insights. Your presence is appreciated even if it feels a little like stabbish. <3

Lawrence Grant
7/27/2017 02:10:57 pm

Please understand that I was not debating anything, or trying to come of stabbish. Simply, I have read those kind of post and they hurt because they come off as if though people are intending to say that as a human, I should be thinking a certain way. I'm sorry but those kinds of post truly do irk me, especially when other's began to reference religion and other beliefs in an attempt to strengthen the idea that I'm supposed to be this way.

My soul, spirit just isn't like that.

I'm sorry I failed to many deeds, and missed far too many opportunities and have yet to meet the expectations I have made for myself. I cannot love myself.

I have dissociation identity disorder, its a struggle that I simply cannot explain. But understand that the idea of simply 'loving myself,' isn't very easy or even comprehensible in my circumstances. I'm happy however that others have been able to find happiness for themselves.

Candace Cullins
8/9/2018 09:10:50 am

Well said and recieved. Ty.Light and love

Celestina
10/25/2017 08:30:24 am

Some totally ignorant of the concept of TF are BLESSED with it none the less. THAT IS WHY IT IS A TRUE THING. It happens exceptionally rarely BUT IT DOES. I am in such a relationship and was unaware of such beforehand. It is like the light of all heaven and earth to be shared. This flame.

Lauren
10/25/2017 08:53:51 am

That's amazing. Thanks for sharing your experiences.

Sara
11/7/2017 10:29:30 am

This experience is what it is. It's very real. I'm still feeling mine's emotions at times in my chakras and can't do anything about it. However I tie no romantic fantasy to this anymore. I saw it as a wake up call to heal and love myself and I'm entirely focused on self love and healing and letting my twin flame go every day. And I only get stronger and don't miss or yearn for him anymore. I just want to be whole alone and move on with my life right now. That's the only focus. But the experience label or not is what it is and it's very real. People just don't get it's about ascension and nothing more. It's about your relationship with yourself. That's about it.

JR
4/19/2017 02:26:20 pm

I certainly hope my tone didn't come off as defensive.... ;-)

Twin flames I think are almost a concept beyond our earthly understanding. They ARE real, but they are not what we think they are (they are not the exclusive, sexual, possessive love confined to partners - which, by the way, does not constitute true love). If anything they are selfless and spur the individuals to do good for the world and to be the best versions of themselves. They are not the melodramatic "I am nothing without this person" sagas that plague and ruin lives.

I think a twin is somebody who we might have the great fortune of briefly encountering or at least glimpsing in earthly life, but they probably do not become our actual mates or partners. That affects our Karma and the "perfection" becomes compromised. Human beings have multiple soulmates, potential and realized, and nobody is "doomed" to just one, ie if it doesn't work out with this person, then there's nobody left. Yet, I have come to believe that our earthly soulmates are but a stepping stone to reunion with the twin flame, although it doesn't in any way mean that all of our loved ones are suddenly forgotten. And you are right, love does begin with the self.

It may be an overreach or a misinterpretation of the Bible, but I think "twins" are ubiquitous. Why did Noah's Ark require TWO of everything? Why was mankind first recognized as a pair (Adam & Eve). I even heard a very simple question about God himself: Why, if God was perfect, did he create beings in his own image? Because, he didn't want to be lonely..... In other words, people are not whole completely ALONE. No man is an island.

So yes, I think twin flames are definitely real, but infrequently recognized in this life. And, more importantly, they do not entail the confinement of our limited earthly, bodily, codependent unions.

Lauren
7/27/2017 01:31:24 pm

Thanks so much for sharing. I tend to keep things simple. When I am madly in love with myself, everything falls into harmony. I appreciate you taking the time to share.

Celestina
10/25/2017 08:33:55 am

Twin Flame is nothing if not non-exclusive. You cannot help but share what the twin flame relationship brings to you with others. You become better, you connect with the best parts of you because of your twin, you route out the inner daemons together, you bring strength to each other, and your friends and family reap the benefits of this better you. I would wish twin flame for everyone. But will share mine (ours) to the utmost.

Violeta
5/17/2018 07:51:25 pm

That is the best, the most succinct, and most inspiring description of the twin flame relationship (and its "fruits") that I have read. Thank you for posting it, Celestina.

Kirk
7/6/2017 05:20:35 am

It is obvious that you you've never experienced the twin flame relationship. There is only one absolute. But just because you have a skeptical mind. Doesn't mean your right or wrong. How do you try to be a hater? When Jesus healed others, there were skeptics, just like you...... You can't tell people what they know. If I hear the voice of God do you think I'm going to pay attention to this blog..... Just like if your an alcoholic or drug addict and I am not. I'm a firm believer if you've never experienced it don't hate on it.

Lauren
7/27/2017 01:28:11 pm

Your own truth is amazing. If it works for you, use it. I was only sharing my own experience. Madly in love with myself and my partner. Whatever works for you, I honor it!

Lynne
8/16/2017 06:15:06 pm

I agree with a lot of what you have written, but I do believe in existence of 'twin flames', while I dislike that label.
I don't believe that they are split souls. I don't believe that souls can be split, but I do believe that they are a catalyst for healing in our lives.
I had absolutely no idea about 'karmic soulmates', 'false twins', 'twin flames', etc., when I started experiencing the journey. I had heard of soulmates, obviously, but had no clue as to any of the rest of it. Some time after I had my first real awakening, I could feel that the yearning for my 'twin' was only growing stronger, along with my ability to feel his energy, rather than dissipating as I healed and worked on myself. That's when I started looking for information and found out about the twin flame journey.
While there is definitely a lot of misinformation, and deliberate disinformation, out there surrounding the subject, it doesn't make it any less real. Just because it isn't real for you doesn't mean that it isn't real for others. We aren't all here to have the same experiences.
I do acknowledge though that all he has really activated in me is a need to heal myself, and experience unconditional love in my life, which has to begin with unconditional love for myself.

Celestina
10/25/2017 09:05:05 am

NOT split souls. That's patently ridiculous. Two souls old souls knowing one another through the eons joined together once again. You are your own person your twin is theirs. That's what makes the beauty of the relationship so profound. Separate but together in an unbreakable bond.

Candai
11/3/2017 09:12:16 pm

Amen Kirk, I get so tired of people including my closest friends telling me this ain't real. If I punch you and I don't get affected by the interaction does that mean that it never happened? Or that the person that I punched was lying about the pain? No??? so how can a person who has no experience tell people that have experience this CRAZY journey speak??

True me
10/3/2017 02:56:56 pm

I have just gone through 2 plus years in what has been confirmed countless times as a twin soul relationship. Not false, but true, confirmed by many different, reliable and varying sources.
I was dedicated to learning what it all meant and why so many strange things kept happening. The numbers, the songs, the feelings of connection, the energy psychic stuff that all started with meeting him.
What I realized is he is being who can transcend dimensions and manipulate my energy when I let him and nothing more.
There are no real life stories of twins lighting up the earth with unconditional love anywhere.
Everyone describes the same things but how many are real life, we shine a light on the world stories.
It's all just manipulation we allow

Lauren Hutton
10/3/2017 10:05:40 pm

Thank you so much for sharing, True Me. I think people like you sharing your story is so very important, and I appreciate you doing so here. I honor everyone's personal experience AND as a facilitator, I have never seen so much suffering caused from any concept as much as the twin flame one. Self-love will always be the answer for me. And, I learned a lot about myself in the twin flame "search" before I returned to SELF. Thank you so much for sharing! - Lauren

Celestina
10/25/2017 09:12:40 am

If it causes suffering it is not true twin flame. Those who search for their twin flame may be disappointed. The truest twin flame relationships happen serendipitously as if the universe is involved. Which it is the case in a true twin flame reunion. My twin and I didn't know the concept of twin flame until months of struggling with that to call our life changing bond. It is not sex, lust, yearning, even love. It is much more. So much more.

Kash
11/3/2017 12:15:17 pm

Hello Lauren, and thanks for the wonderful points you put forward here.

For my part, I believe that what people seem not to understand with the whole twin flame issue is that it should in NO way be seen as a romantic relationship- actually I would go as far as to say that it is the most unromantic relationship one could be in.

On the contrary, being on a "tf journey" is all about focussing on yourself, as has been beautifully explained above. The twin flame union for that matter can only occur when- as mentioned in the last part of this article- these two sovereign souls have completely realised their true potential and the amount of unconditional love they are capable of, for themselves first of all.

All in all, I would say that the real misconception is that people seem to focus more on being with another person, their 'twin flame' in this case, thinking that that person will fix everthing for them when really the whole self-realistion process is something you can only do on your own. No other human being or entity for that matter can complete your journey for you.

Lauren
11/3/2017 05:46:29 pm

Indeed I am enjoying a relationship with another self-realized being. And it is not "romantic" in the way that you only experience from co-dependence. I had to find that self love and honor on my own first. Thanks so much for sharing!

Angela
11/6/2017 06:48:07 am

Please do not post or claim things without complete knowledge. Certain things you have to experience to believe. Twin flames are real. And I myself has experienced this. It is not some hypithesis but a proven thing.
It is not a faith like God or Ghost.
It is a reality.
But only the chosen mature souls can experience it.

Lauren
11/6/2017 07:38:04 am

Angela, I love being in a world where I can share my personal experience without censorship and you can too. Mature souls telling people what they can and cannot do. That's a knee slapper! Chosen by who? Give me a break.

Dee
12/7/2017 05:33:44 am

Dear All,

What about the "3D'rs" like myself, that get hurt by so called "Twin Flamers". I'm the wife of a husband caught up with a "Twin Flamer". Do twin flamers care for the hurt and anguish that they cause? No I don't think so, as long as they get what they want. I call it by what it is, an affair, simple as that. If you met some unattached or unattainable, why pursue them? I would only ne with someone, unattached, as it is not fair to anyone, going after someone already i a relationships, whether good or bad.

When I met my husband 20 years ago, I also felt the same way about my husband, I felt like the universe had brought us together, forever and it was that way for a long time. We were always together, in sync. He was unattached and made a commitment to me, out of free choice. However, we found it very difficult to conceive and I had a difficult pregnancy, making communication difficult. After the birth of our son, our communication become even more difficult and so my husband starting looking for someone to talk to. He found a woman on the internet, interested and supportive. Therefore he transferred all the feelings that he once had for me to her. I caught them and when confronted, she sprouted all this "twin flame" thought.

Alot of "twin flamers" seem to have the same types of relationships. They are in affairs. Some people will leave their long term partner's and start new relationships, but most do not. "Twin Flamers" seem to think, that their yoyo replationships help them grow? But if a man/woman really wanted to, he/she would make a proper commitment to you and not yoyo up and down, between you and another or keep you waiting for them forever. You are doing more damage to yourselves, than you realise. Keeping yourselves on a hook, constantly lying to yourself, does more harm that good and will not make you anymore enlightened in life.

You may think me bitter, but I have always called things as I see them. I will not call the sky pink, if it is blue. I am completely sercure in myself also, before anyone starts with the "I'm not enlightened" conversation.

Most "Twin Flamers" need to understand, they are the "other woman" and not THE woman, regardless of what you tell yourselves.

Marie
2/19/2018 12:37:03 pm

I agree with you. The whole twin flame experience is real but the whole happy ever after fairytale crap is bullshit. I don’t know one person with theirs and I’m friends with 4 women who met theirs. It’s when they heal from this person and let them go they attract someone available who actually loves them. This twin person never comes around after that. It’s just a strong past life karmic lesson. But I can bullshit on the happy ever after. I’ve been working on the grief of fully letting mine go. I don’t trust him he’s proven nothing but to be an unreliable flake that has made me an option for years becuase of his “fear”. Well fear or not pretty douchey to me and I def don’t want to be his last pick. Gimme a break. I feel like people still hung up on this person have unresolved mommy and daddy issues to sort out and heal. Once I healed a lot of mine the love has severely faded. Of course it’s to heal your old patterns and when you love yourself enough you finally move on from this trap of beliefs realizing you don’t want someone who treated you like literally crap. I truly don’t wish the pain of this journey on my worst enemy, he was worse than my narcissist ex as far as pain.

Jk
3/10/2018 01:00:16 am

I can ascertain that.
Thanx.
I am trying to move on too from this VERY PAINFUL experience.

Sara
7/24/2018 01:48:34 pm

Actually the reason it’s painful is Bc you’re clearing all your old junk and ego that’s keeping you separate from god and your twin. This journey is about GOD first. Putting god as first in your life. Bc you can’t control your twin or this. Jesus showed himself to MANY of us with our counterparts with the same message of “trust me”. There’s no way around it. Letting go of control and only leaning on god is the only way. And yes enlightenment is finding god so yes the purpose of meeting this connection is to find yourself AND god FIRST. The dalmantling of the ego is not a pleasant thing it’s awful. But as you continue in this journey you have more peace and trust in god and can lead with your heart and soul and not your mind anymore. And that’s a beautiful thing. I think some people are just bitter they can’t control their twin and truthfully you can’t control anything! Control is an illusion. Surrender is the only way out. To let go and stop the battle of the mind and the heart. Peace and unity consisousness and wholeness will come over you and funny enough your twin instantly returns and you’re together for good. It’s just this depth of love and god’s love (Bc that’s precisely what you feel) is so potent it brings up everything with you that isn’t in alignment with that vibration, so believe it or not this process does prepare you for each other. It’s all for a greater purpose. And most of us are starting life purposes helping people break these patterns too with self love and healing their wounds. So we are going through the fire to help others too (most importantly). We are here to help others awakened to the truth of their own divinity. And believe me most of us never even knew a twin flame existed, it found us and threw us off guard and we had to search for answers when going through the awakening, telepathy, and soul merging process with this other person. It wasn’t a choice, lol. I don’t wish this on anyone it’s tough. But the growth is immense and I’ve just been allowing it take its course so the fight is over. God wins lol.

Marie
2/19/2018 01:04:58 pm

You hear of people saying they need to heal more to be with them and they must be mentally sick. It’s more like you need to heal more to realize you don’t want someone like this. Someone coming in and out of your life, with little regard or care for you doesn’t belong in your life. It’s emotional abuse. The stories I’ve heard are beyond awful. Mine came back saying he was ready and ran and got a gf for a week but couldn’t fake he didn’t love her so he dumped her and has been single ever since bed hopping my entire town to numb his soul out a little more. He was crazy obsessed with me when we met that I don’t deny but he’s such a damaged person he totally screwed any chances with us up. I’ve heard of many women pregnant and their twin left them with their children!!!!! They abandoned their own blood, their child. One hers didn’t show up for their wedding and ran. After she spend 20 grand. Let’s stop smoking the crack people! This is freaking abuse!!!! You deserve better than these men who came to wake you up to your true worth. It’s a matter of when you stop putting your hand in that fire anymore and move on with your life you actually get the real thing appear.

Sam
12/31/2017 06:44:38 am

I have to agree with Lauren I think it's a huge illusion that we are chasing after something, they myth that a part of us is missing. To me that is nonsense. Spirit has made us whole and complete. It really is about loving ourselves. No one can complete or make us whole, that is something only we can do for ourselves. The love we share with another person is just a connection with a soul mate or souls that we shared many life times with and have gotten to be familiar to us. I remember reading from the book of author and past life regressionist Mira Kelley how she had a client that actually had a relationship with a spirit that came from the same over soul as they call it. Some people would put the title "twin flame" on it which I don't. It was if not one of the most difficult and painful relationships for that spirit to learn. It's not a omg it's so passionate and loving embrace relationship, it was a relationship that pushed buttons and they struggled emotionally up and down. Her book open my eyes to a lot of things that being one of them. Our greatest ability in this world and the most important thing is to give love despite no always receiving it back. It's more about us and less about other people. If we share a wonderful love with another spirit that is great but self love is the ultimate goal and giving it freely and unconditionally is what is the most important thing.

R
1/12/2018 02:44:18 am

Thanks for writing this article! I was looking up "Twin Flame Myth" because I really get sick of reading what I view as a lot of garbage from 'experts' who seem to be living in some kind of unrealistic fantasyland and encouraging others to do the same.

I'm one of those who *is* going through the Twin Flame journey... it's very real to me, and not something I'd wish upon anyone actually. The weird things you mention do really happen... I can vouch for that from years of consistent personal experience.

I don't believe in 'one soul in two bodies', I don't know who invented that one but it doesn't make sense, I agree with you there.

I don't believe Twins are meant to stay together spreading love and joy to everyone as some believe. That's silly to me. We are on Earth, not in Heaven. We are meant to live human lives while we are here.

My personal thinking is that Twins come into our life for OUR evolution as the person we are here on Earth. The Twin can assist in this like no-one else can. They have intimate knowledge of us from many lifetimes together. I think we both chose to work with each other on this kind of thing, throughout time. Why, I don't know. I like the earlier comment someone made about being married to this other soul, I think that's true as my Twin often says that we are married. (He is dead, by the way.) We are somewhat of a team. Whether it's a toxic thing as that commenter suggests, I'm not quite sure about that, but I am certainly learning a lot of valuable things about myself from this other soul's presence in my life that I wouldn't have otherwise.

M
1/14/2018 01:02:35 am

Every single person who is doubting twin souls has never been in the actual field of a twin flame union. Many 'hear' about it. its become a buzz word. Even more try to look for it or when they find another who hey 'vibe' with, they try to ask the question: are they my twin. But let me tell you, if you ever really see them, you will know. You will know in a way that leaves no room for doubt. It is the most real thing you will ever experience. More than likely, you will never have heard of or have any resonance with terms like twin soul (i didnt). You may well NEVER want to be in that situation (maybe you were never even looking conciously). But you will be helpless to follow.

Any one who says otherwise, has never, ever been in the twin flame relationship. Its like spiritual initiation or enlightenment or the dark night of the soul. If you have to ask the question "am I going through it" or "i THINK i went through it", then you never went through it.

No one knows what twin souls are PERIOD. It is a mystery that is being revealed in the most painful ways to some of us. All that we know is, when your with them, you feel complete in a way that NOTHING can make you feel complete. Fulfilment comes of things that you didnt even KNOW you were ever missing. You will never love anyone as much as them, not soulmates, not children, not GOD. You find love in yourself that is greater than any love that your being is capable of. It is a love that is different than oneness(mystic union). The flavour of it is different although there is some overlap. the love that comes from universal conciousness piercing your heart (union) is different than the the love that comes when you meet your twin. Both lead to merging but its indescribeably different.

Maybe the universe is coming into a new phase of exploration/creation. We should never forget that the spirit of the world has always been EVOLVING. the old paradigms will, at some point, not remain UNIVERSAL. The actual lived experience of individuals will always trump scriptures and old wisdom. Because experience is real, the first rule of YOGA. Just because twin flames are never mentioned in the old paradigm does not mean that they are false. It seems like the the individual self is evolving into sumthing that It alone could not evolve into, with its own energy. The seeming highest possibility of it used to be to destroy itself and let the universal energy merge with it i.e. ego death and enlightenment. or be 'LIBERATED' from its own fearful individuality. WIth twin souls, the energy of two seperate selves comes together, completes each other and creates something completely new, But also, completely complete in itself. Not an illusion anymore but a truth. A burning single flame, alight by its own radiance.

If it is succesful. I do not pretend to know whether it will turn out that way, but I hope it does. We can not deny with our tongues, what we know to be true in our hearts.

cari
1/15/2018 05:32:56 am

agreed to a degree but not totally - i think the word love doesnt cover it - it is beyond love and no one knows what it is - i think in order to get across laurens message of self love she did not have to bash twin flames - twin flame connection is evolution yes and it is about connection on different planes of existence coming to consciousness and if you do not have a counterpart that is far less evident - it is also about a shift in awareness and responsibility to life and self within life - it is a mirror experience but a catalyst for change not just within the self but within what it means to connect with another >>> what can be created from connecting

M
1/16/2018 12:23:15 am

Personally, I very much doubt that the twin flame experience is a means to an end. In my humble opinion, it is too big to be a means to any end. It may well cause other things to open up and come to light in the soul, but that is more an effect than a purpose.

Not to say that is a reason that it will succeed or blossom, but people who are in it, usually have a very strong energetic sense of something truly unique opening up in consciousness. Something truly precious. Perhaps something that has never been seen before in the world of spirit. It may well be that a new paradigm is emerging in reality and the wrest of reality isnt in line enough with it to create the sort of environment in which it can flourish. Which is why it often leads to such darkness and pain.

You are right, the word Love does not cover it. Before I met my twin, every soul mate relationship that I came across, energetically, had to do with the freedom that is inherently present in unconditional love. Freedom and unity/oneness/transcendence) are very much connected. It was a similar energy that is found in the ecstatic states of spiritual awakening and enlightenment (i say this from personal experience). When I found my twin, I found something greater than freedom. Something which was more valuable than even the greatest freedom.

I just hope the universe gets its act together so that precious lives are not lost in the struggle. Everyone deserves to be whole.

Sam
2/4/2018 05:22:23 am

No what I have noticed is we get caught up on labels. No matter what one wants to believe is that unconditional that is freely given is what matters and that is what is real love, the only one that truly exists. A relationship does not have to romantic to experience that. Spirit loves us and we return to that source we are not empty, nor are we missing. A human life experience is very brief. We want to believe this or that so it can make life bearable. I am not knocking people's experience of a deep spiritual love or attraction but what I do want to clarify is that it's not always in a romantic capacity either. Love doesn't have limits it does not have a specific form either. Animals for example are the ones that can be the perfect example of unconditional love.

Marie
2/19/2018 12:41:19 pm

Let me ask you a serious question. Why do you want to be with someone unavailable who isn’t choosing you but choosing others? It’s usually lack of self esteem and unhealed inner child stuff. When you heal this your perspectives will start to shift. Everyone believing in this person coming to save the day are stuck in a delusion thinking they will make them complete and resolve their unhealed pain. When you heal fully you’ll look back and be shocked how much your inner child ran the show wanting someone who treated you like less than the love you and everyone deserves.

Marie
2/19/2018 01:14:53 pm

M why do you feel the need to hold onto this so tightly? This is about self love, you know. I’ve been on the journey 2 years and if there’s anything I get from this is to heal myself and be my own lover becuase that man will never be capable of it. Stop the fairyland stories. They are keeping you stuck in a delusional nonexistent relationship. People are literally in love with a ghost it’s sad. Id hate to see you spend a whole life alone stuck in this cycle. Do you want True love or this person? If you want this person over true love that is equally reciprocated you should really ask yourself why that is. It’s self worth lack.

M
2/28/2018 08:11:56 pm

Because your twin flame is you. They are more you than you are yourself.

Most people (not all) who think they are in twin flame relationships are actually not. Its not always self worth lack.

M
1/14/2018 01:10:57 am

I do not know whether everyone has a twin flame. What a twin flame is, is a mystery even to those in the union. It is the one thing none of us can put into words. And in my experience, it is even more mysterious than enlightenment. It almost feels like a deep silent 'other' path that is revealed to some, for reasons that perhaps even the universe itself does not fully comprehend.


I once gazed into the tao. And it was less memorable than when I gazed into my twin's eyes. Thats all I know.

21grams
2/1/2018 05:30:28 pm

I understand not resonating with they Disney move, romantic mythos that people push and sell but UNLESS, you have actually experienced what people have labeled the Twin Flame connection you are really speaking about it from a place of ego in my opinion. And that's ok, the problem is...there are people actually going through this process that could use actual guidance and between people who don't really understand it telling them that it's a 'myth' and others who have found a new online marketing niche to capitalize off of, it leaves a lot of people out in the wilderness. I agree with the article's commentary on self love and not looking for your 'other half' to fix you.

If anything, meeting your twin flame will BREAK you, in the most beautiful way. Meeting your direct reflection can completely shatter your concept of love, self and reality in general. And it ultimately serves to prompt you to and prompt s you to truly love and fix yourself as much as you want to love and fix this person you have this connection with. But make no mistake, it's not fairy tale love. It's a soul jarring, spiritual puberty process that can lead to creating a unified field that can greatly influence the collective in the way of reexamining what love actually is.

Marie
2/19/2018 12:45:44 pm

And how is holding onto this helping you move forward in life? I see so many women rotting alone waiting for this person it’s freaking depressing. They were a wake up call to love ourselves. That’s it. And until you fully do and let go you can’t fully heal and move on with your life to have true love. Do you want someone unavailable who’s not in your life or true love that’s reciprocated? Ask yourself why you want to hold onto someone who isn’t loving you properly. Unhealed stuff within.

Catherine
2/2/2018 06:59:22 am

Thank you Lauren and all of you who commented so far on this blog post. You are all so honest in expressing your experiences! I totally needeed to read this today, as I have been deciding, with this latest full moon, to free myself from the ‘twin flame journey’.

I have been broken and broken again and again... And I have learned so much and so magically from this ‘relationship’ that there are no words to describe it. Almost all of it in separation from my twin yet with one initial honey moon and then occasional encounters or text messages exchange. And I have detoxed and detoxed the body and the mind alike. And healed from all sorts of trauma and physical illnesses. Yes the twin flame journey is a real thing. And yes my twin and I have an amazing connection (and he is not in another steady relationship - I would personally not accept to be in an affair - yet not judging those who are).

But do I want to continue breaking myself and crying my eyes out just to learn yet another thing? How much is there to learn? We cannot know all of infinity in one lifetime as a limited human being and probably not even as a soul. And we do not have to!

When we build muscle we break the fibers and create inflammation. A little inflammation is good for growth. But repeated, chronic inflammation is not. I actually also learned that from over exercizing a few years ago and just making my body sick.

Today I know that we can choose anything we want and God will still love us no matter what. Yes, no matter what. So what to fear? Nothing. We can choose the experiences we feel like. And they do not have to be that painful or that torturous.

I choose today out of this addiction. Again not so much an addiction to the man but rather to this TF journey. But I also know it was essential to go through it… and I cannot but observe that alcoholics often become addicted to ... AA itself (so not really out of addiction)!

“My name is Catherine and I am a Twin Flame!”

Can we ever be totally free?

Maybe not. Maybe ‘condition’ is as important as ‘human’ in ‘human condition’. So be it. I will make the most of it and break out of all attachments that cause excessive pain and that look like ‘you cannot live without them’.

Yes we can.

Tammy
2/9/2018 07:19:31 am

The other thing about the TF journey is that you can’t actually stop it. No matter how much you want to deny it say it isnt real, it is always there. Trust me I have tried everything. If you are truly on the journey you just have to surrender to it because no amount of resisting it works ;)

Catherine
3/11/2018 12:37:45 pm

Dear Tammy, you are correct. I resonate with that. And interestingly, that is the case of all addictions. The journey to freedom is through attachments. And I did surrender. Or rather, I am fully surrendering to God.

Jaynice
2/11/2018 06:22:05 pm

Thank You Lauren for teaching us great methods of Self Love.
These are important for us All.
.
About Twin Flames -
I can sometimes see auras of people - yet with my flame I see his Spirit Light.
.
Telepathy - Energy exchanges - can happen with my children - when they are going through something and needing -
With my Flame its a whole new level.
Clear. Defined. Detailed. Stronger.

No- one else makes me smile as bright
No-one.
Its more than "a good thing"
It rips away every falsity - shatters all illusions - its not for the weak hearted - it can hurt.
Badly.
The fear is Very Real - to be so confidence around all other people is one thing - but with our Flame - our ego knows this is our last lifetime ever if we unite.
No more reincarnation
That's a HUGE decision.
I like Earth. I like Nature. I like the feel of the Sun and Wind and Rain ..
To never return - to make the world a better place - these are not small matters.

mona
2/24/2018 08:17:59 am

I am glad that finally I find someone who look at this twin flame madness with realistic eye. I spend last 3 years believing that a guy I broke up with is my twin flame. He was believing or pretending this also, communicating with me in very playful way thru many media, but we dont meet in real life during this time. I was believing in tf concept, had a dreams, telepatic comunications, even astral intimacy. We watch videos about * what next for twin flames etc., etc.. And u know what happend? I was alone for this 3 years, waiting and believing in something higly trendy now, when all kind of spiritual people make a loots of money on card reading online, keep them watching and waiting for their masculine to finally come down to earth. And He, during this time playing with me, have a girlfriend and happy life, I find out just recently, and I decided to move off all this TF madness. U can be happy with youself, u dont need your other half to be complete, to realise your life mission. U as u are, just perfect creation, u can give light to everyone. Rest is just another way of making bussiness on lonely peoples hearts. Wish u all the best. World is full of love and joy, live your tru life x

nicola
3/1/2018 03:09:18 am

Bravo!
Twin Flame is a trap and an illusion of the 4th Dimension. In 5D we are limitless. In 5D, yes, we see that we were always the love we had been seeking.

M
3/10/2018 10:14:22 pm

No it isnt.

Leann
3/11/2018 04:13:28 am

I'm aghast that there are people who believe in this mythical "new age" nonsense. The new age movement is nothing short of a band-aid for the weak-minded. Content so vague, generalizing, and bias-confirming, is a charlatan's dream.

Truthfully? There is no one man destined to be with you. If he runs away from you and your love, here's a simple translation as to why: he ISN'T that into you. Stop projecting your fantasies onto another human being, who will never feel the "love" you feel for them. Use your critical faculties and inject logic into the situation.

Why am I looking for validation from an unrequited love? Why do I keep obsessing over someone who runs away from my feelings? Find out WHY you are placing someone else in a position of power in your life.

You're disrespecting yourself, and your own intellect, thinking that the love, which only you can feel, will lodge a cosmic "Cupid's arrow" through the object of your affection's heart.

Placing expectations on another person, because of your own misguided feelings, is a lose-lose situation. You will feel loss when your expectations aren't met, and the object of your desire, will feel guilt, for not being able to reciprocate. Love YOURSELF. You deserve true love, loyalty, and commitment.

Catherine
3/11/2018 12:59:57 pm

Leann, my own twin flame journey has taught me to do my best to never judge others and to love myself and others unconditionally. Whether indeed I end up with my twin or not one day is no longer what fundamentally matters for me. But my journey was, and still is, beyond words (and beyond labels) amazing. And I do know a number of twins who do end up together in amazing unions. So I would like to suggest you suspend judgement. Maybe the twin flame journey is just not what you think it is...

M
3/13/2018 04:10:09 pm

Twin flames have nothing to do with belief. It is a knowing of the heart. And once you know, you can never un-know. And that knowing shatters any belief or disbelief that stands in its way. It is the biggest force of nature that anyone comes across.

Lauren link
3/11/2018 10:40:51 am

Hi friends, thanks for the lively, insightful discussion. All views welcome. My new book Thirty Days of Self-Love is free here: www.becomingsarh.com - Just register on the reader portal and hit download.

Catherine
3/11/2018 01:01:10 pm

Congratulations for the new book, Lauren!

Thoughtfulone
3/16/2018 02:19:36 pm

I agree that it is a myth or fantasy derived from fairy tales and the concept of soul mates. I think people are confusing someone whom is in their soul group who they've incarnated with over lifetimes as a twin-flame. We all choose our incarnations with our soul group and come into each other's lives to help us learn what we need. That's why your mother could have been your sister, brother, daughter, husband, wife in past lifetimes. People seem to have created their own definition of twin-flames, when it's widely accepted that it is defined as one soul split into two. Which like you said is not in line with the purpose of our existence. Whenever someone like you posts something that calls out the TF theory as a myth, suddenly people are sooo quick to be on the defense and convince you (actually themselves truly) otherwise. To those who are so desperate to prove her wrong, who are you really trying to convince? What purpose does it serve you to go out of your way to make sure you think she is incorrect? Maybe think about why your consciousness brought you to this page and re-examine your beliefs. We all do not have the answers, but we are constantly being taught lessons by the universe. Remember we are here to learn more than we are to make sure others share our beliefs. Do what speaks to you and if for now you need to believe in the TF theory. That's fine, but don't hold on to it so much that it inhibits your ability to keep listening to the universe and your higher self.

CATHERINE
7/31/2018 12:51:43 pm

I agree with you, Thoughtfulone, that there is danger in becoming fixated with the TF story or concept, or any part of what's forcefully taught out there about it, as there is big danger in becoming fixated with just anything... There is danger to become fixated with that 'other person' too! Quite honestly, I never bought the story of one soul split in two but I do feel the feminine and the masculine energies inside of me... So that resonates positively. Both were damaged and needed healing and my own beautiful TF journey helped me heal them. The TF journey became an inside adventure for me. Yet as you also know, one does need to fixate on something to understand the other side of that polarity which is freedom. The journey to freedom is through fixating and letting go... and again.

Ana link
3/29/2018 06:04:33 pm

OK!

I was reading the comments and made me laugh. I read this blogs name, and it makes me laugh.'New energy creator'...Really?!?!
Twin Flames, 5D, 3D, PAIN, spiritual awakening. One self, the catalyst karmic soul... :)))))))))
Not to mention how it includes healers and light workers. Bloody hell men, this is fucking Snow White, Cindefuckarella, and Peter pans fairytale world. But if I look around, I only see nothing but humans.
What else was...? Soul guides that see and have out of the body experiences. They are VERY grateful to help you for a one hour Skype call if you pay about 100 bucks to listen to their lying bullshit. :)))))))))
I can not call this people stupid, as compared to who the fuck pays for that shit, they are pretty damn smart to make you fall for it and them gaining money out of your stupidity. Who knew stupidity can pay so well?
Out of all this, you know what I don't deny? It's spiritual awakening.
Now that should of happened a long time ago. A reaaaaaaaaaaally long time ago.
I think God, sat down one day and looked at what he made and realized he is far from being perfect. Sort of like a kids school project gone wrong, you know?
I mean spiritual awakening had to happen, as something had to fucking open some damn religious eyes. You know what I mean? I mean the ones that wakes you up every sunday morning and screams at you on how he and God spoke last night when he invented some cheesy words to make you stupid asses fall for it? Sounds familiar? Nothing different than a 'light worker' or soul healer or whatever the fuck they call themselves. Never fucking payed for one and cant say I felt pity for the ones who did, as stupidity pays well as you can see. Only part is that it payes someone else and not you? You actually pay for them ...I mean you get it. You are just stupid. Nothing new on this planet.
What else I believe in from all this crap is LOVE. Now love is love. If God made anything perfect, that was it. Love!
That is the best connection one can get on a soul level if thats how we call it. God gave you that thing for free and all you have to do is feel it and treat is a damn Gift. Oh and I don;t believe in GOD, I believe in whatever is up there that made me not selfish enough to just accept others how they are. The difference between this Thing that is up there and the ones you pay money , is that that thingm gave you things for free, Gave you the best of the best and he did not sit next to you when you needed help and told you it costs the salary of a month of work
I do not deny the signs, patterns in relationships and I do not deny the fact that each one of has has a damn good reason to be here. I hope nobody's reason is to just be dumb as I keep seeing. Yes, of course you see things and there are connections and signs that may or may not mean something.
Nobody can deny or approve that Twin flames exist, but even so, does not mean it makes you fucking special. It means every single soul is unique and if TF exist, all have a half somewhere. #It's purely idiotic to me to hear people speaking about some stupid 5D, 3D and they call themselves Blue child ::))))))))))))))))) , or healer.
If Twin flames exist loves, then let it happen, if not, life goes on, love exists, pain exists out of sheer stupidity and you still get older. #Stop wining about how painful and emotional it is to lose a twin. There are people who had like 10 twin flames experiences. It was like fucking exposition for people.: well ima try all of them see which one it is. If its none, i will just come around and write on some blog how sad and disappointed I am that this shit ended up being a hoax.
Come on now! Stop this shit!

M
4/2/2018 10:35:46 pm

You lack compassion and therefore, eyes with which to see. That is all.

Ana
4/14/2018 03:46:10 pm

Or maybe I just SEE, what you refuse to see.
😂

M
4/14/2018 08:10:46 pm

If you saw, you wouldnt talk so trivially about it. You talk about it like it was a game and not a single person who has had a true twin encounter could ever talk in that way. If your heart's eye was open, you would be able to sense at least that much. But your having too much fun denying other people's realities and burdens and feeling good about it. Thats ok, you can go on doing that. A true twin flame experience is singular and irreversible.

Ana
4/16/2018 05:23:03 pm

I don’t remember saying they are not real. I actually said, that nobody can deny or approve that they are real or not. I also said, that if they exist, they do NOT need some sort of guidance from blue child, healers and God know what other payed and invented bullshit from other people trying to rip you off. It needs you and others having the same experience.
Don’t underestimate my experience in this field. You might end up losing this battle, Pablo.
You want to know about REAL twin flames? The real experience of it. Read about the romanian poet Mihai Eminescu and his only love Veronica Micle. I call them soul mates. I settle for the old version as people tend to confuse the spiritual awakening that definetly opens up new ways of soul connection to this romanced version of twin flames. And as I said above, some have like 100 and then end up having none. I am not making it sound like a game. It is a damn game for many. And a very disrespectful one if you ask me.
Are you a twin flame? Then honey I might say I am too IF ONLY I’d trully believe in it. But as I said, lets not mix things up. Spiritual awakening was needed as this world turn into ice. We needed love to heal. Love for all and between everyone. With some you connect differently, with others you dont. But it does not mean they are all your twin flames.
I’ve had sooo many signs a ‘twin flame experience’ has that you d be amazed. In the end it ends up with this: the world is healing. The world is learning a new way of loving and connecting souls and if that includes some sort of idea of this one amazing connection, that is great but lets not be so dreamy about it. Lets not spend money to be lied to.

Ana
4/16/2018 05:36:56 pm

And one more thing... I might look like this version of Grinch for Twin Flames to you and I understand but as some dream about their imaginary pain for their twin, real life happens out there. Rape, violence, crime and a lot of stupidity... I could add up child abuse, pornography. You want this world to see this amazing connection, then get out of that cozy bed and fight to change the way the world acts on it.
We speak about connections and love but i dont see many showing any. I see many crying out for real love in a world out of love. Get it?
I SEE IT. Just not like you. You see a person who apparently is your twin and you go through this amazing transformation... but souls have a purpose of being here and now. Whats yours?

M
4/17/2018 08:35:14 am

Im not underestimating you. I just know that you have never personally felt the twin flame connection or if you have, you have tried your best to dismiss it. your post is an ego filled rant taking pleasure in 'calling out' healers (who you know nothing about). No twin flame 'believed' in twin flames. It just happened to them one day and then, try as they might they couldnt disbelieve. There is only one twin flame and that is something you realize through the connection beyond any doubt. If you havent had the experience then no one can show you.

Same with spiritual awakening. If youve never had the experience, great. Ur lucky that you dont have to go through that hell and can live in your vanilla no-nonsense version of reality.

But seeing as your here judging and dismissing others, I would ask you why you are here? Since you cant seem to believe in twin flames or spiritual awakening or magic then what is your motivation for being here? Ask yourself that.

Ana
4/19/2018 05:25:14 pm

You know nothing indeed, so I suppose it is hard for you to understand.
Honey, I never said they don’t exist. I am just shocked on what others people do out of this.
Of course is shocking. Seeing the signs, having yourself thinking you went nuts because you meet people who look alike, having the same number, same name everywhere, like you are haunted by this person and loving someone so much that you do not understand a thing from it all, not to say that you have dreams about this person that become reality.
Don’t tell me about hell.
Read again! I was going through so much awakening that one might think I went nuts.
What I talk about, is where people take this. To what level. The pain? Yup can be painful. But not that much as to the way some people tend to describe.
It can be confusing as hell and so many others.
But how many stories/cases have you read about stating : well I met this person I had a connection with and thought they are my twin flame, until another showed up and felt the same.
Doesn’t it make you wonder about what people make out of it? Romanticizing this connection, taking it to this stupid level of having like 100000 twin flames?
Come on! Some chick hears about it from facebook and starts confusing things stating she met her twin flame, who in the end it wasn’t. She consults some “guides” take her money and end up in one telling her it is and the other it isn t.
So do you understand now?
As I said before. Nobody can deny or approve. I felt it, you did but there is a huge difference here.
Some of us concentrate on living, growing and developing this awakening. And for all means I am not a blue child or whatever the heck some like to call themselves. This is just souls, growing, learning love and becoming what they should be. They are souls, not guides and blue kids.
It just silly.
If we are lucky enough to live in a time where souls evolve, doscovering some truth about them, that does not mean we have to make it look so damn silly.
Whats my mission here? To make some sense as it became silly.
Why would you spend your years hoping every damn person you get anconnection with is your twin flame?
I had no idea I had one. Or for that matter if this trully is this. I don’t deny the possibility, the connection, all the awkward, weird and out of the normal things, the signs the dreams, etc, but I will not go around acting crazy on it. There are signs letting you know that you are on the right path. There are parts of you that have to dissapear, like pride, Ego, and parts of you that before this thing started you could not see they were anproblem, and now you and you are pushed to change. Nothing new there. Live it! Change! Learn and become what you are meant to be! But spear me the naming of blue kid and some silly guide. Nobody knows better than you what you are and if there is or not a twin somewhere.

Ana
4/19/2018 05:48:10 pm

And let me make it straight to you.
There is always the chance to confuse things. There is no hell in what you experience. There is only blessings if you want to call it like that.
First of all, If you waste your time (and that is what it is: a waste of time) thinking how painful it is, how this and that... Then you are missing the importance of it. The idea is to live your life and discover what you are meant to be.
If you waste your time on that one person you think is your twin (even if it is) then you miss the whole point.
Exactly what I’ve said: life goes on anyway. It is up to you if you waste your time or you make it worth.
As simple as that.
I spent 2 years trying to understand what was going on. Wondering if I went nuts, if I was obsessed and maybe that is why I “think” I meet people who look like her. And when I was finally tired of trying to make some sense out of it, it actually made sense. It was not about focusing on her. It was about me and everything that I needed to experience and change. And still do. There is no pain, I know I love her. But it is not the romantic side that it used to be. Its much more beautiful than that. And while I live my life with and amazing woman, from time to time me and this person, we come together and talk maybe.
I am used to the way we both come and think about each other at the same time and all the signs and weird stuff. It is funny. But one thing is for sure. We still have to live, in order to learn. So each one of us have their own karma to clear.
So pain went away a long time ago and all because I started focusing on me.

M
4/19/2018 10:43:08 pm

Usually, people who "think" they are someone's twin flame. arent. Most often, in real twins, no one has even heard of the concept and its only after that they find the words which fit their experience so completely. Once you have felt the essence of your twin and really seen them for who they are, there is no doubt in your heart that they are you. They are more you then you are yourself. They are a piece of you. You can not deny it.
I have personally never heard of the stories that you talk about. They sound like a lot of new age people who like to use the word without its meaning because they are looking for meaning in their life maybe. So they try and find it in something they heard about online. If even one of them had had at win flame experience, they would not find 'another' twin, Again, it doesnt work that way. And you experientially know this if you go through the experience.

I do not know what your relationship with the person you speak of is so ill leave that for you to know.

As for spiritual awakening, that is something else. Something different than what you are describing. Your spirit is deeply affected by true love and loss, that is true, and it manifests in all sort of ways in the world. But spiritual awakening is another thing altogether. Indigo children and healers are at the lower end of what full on spiritual awakening can lead you to. It can make Harry potter sound tame and unremarkable by comparison.

Its best not to force your own sensibilities on the world. I personally dont think that we are here just to get rid of our karma or grow as individuals.

Ana
4/20/2018 04:45:44 am

I’ve had heard many stories like this. Even reading some comments from around here, same silly situation as many others.
I prefer to think I am not one and just leave it be. Que sera, sera.
Of course I believe this is real. And mo, it is not about growing as individual. That is just a bonus part.
I do not believe in healers that charge money to tell one some lies. I believe someone can be a healer, and having the sense of kindness and good intention to help because that is their mission. Something like voluntary work for souls. Pro bono. Easy money for some of them.
I have my own “magic powers”, like dreams that come true, six th sense, a intuition that is accurate since all this happens and so much more. Would I charge someone to tell them something if I knew anything about them? Mmmnope! I would just say it because the feeling of helping is more rewarding than 100 bucks.
I think it is about karma as well. I mean, in order to grow as a soul, you need to fix some past things.
Individual growing, is just a bonus, but not related to this

BJ
3/30/2018 01:47:37 pm

If anyone had told me even just a few years ago that there were Twin Flames I'd laugh them to scorn. But I've since gotten an education in humility. Twin Flames exist.

There are 8 billion souls on the planet. Each has her own unique journey, mission, purpose in this world. I think you're wonderful Laura. But the validity of the spiritual experiences and individual journeys of billions of people is not determined by whether you've personally experienced something or not. I hear there's astral travel. I've never experienced it. Others say they have. That doesn't mean it's a myth. No individual can encompass the depth and range of all spiritual possibilities. The important thing is to find out why you're here. And align with your life's unique mission.

The problem with the Twin Flame concept is the same as for any other spiritual concept; there's a lot of misinformation and differing takes and outright fraud and lies, and people who are claiming 'twin flame' connection as an excuse for cheating and destroying their marriages. This might be hard to hear but genuine Twin Flames will NOT be married when they meet. You will not be hurting others to be together and indulge your passion. It just doesn't work that way. In fact your feelings for your twin flame are indescribable. Literally. It's barely even romantic. It's not something you will feel for anyone else in this world. And it WILL drive you towards God and the spiritual, in a desperate quest for answers. Meeting your twin flame will change your reality, and change you utterly and irrevocably.

Twin Flames aren't about romance. It's not about either of you. A twin flame is an eternal companion. You've known and loved each other for eternity. You're not here for romance. You already have always had that with each other. It's impossible to describe this. Different belief systems have different names for the same ideas. New Age says raise your vibration. Christianity says live a holy life. We can overcome semantics and embrace what's universal and collective in our spiritual journeys. There are those whose spiritual path is the Twin Flame path. That it's not your path doesn't make it a myth. There are a myriad of paths and they all lead to God.

The Twin Flame is first and foremost a SPIRITUAL path.

Mark
4/19/2018 07:49:48 am

Hi, I was in a twin flame situation and it is very REAL and it goes much deeper than most people realise. I feel that this might be one of the most difficult things to go through because of the connection twins feel, the signs and wonders and the split that occurs within the spirit.

I want other twins to know that the connection is NOT REAL because it’s not him/her that you are connected to. The connection between you and your twin is made possible by familiar spirits that have attached themselves to you through a spirit of desire.

The real reason why your twin says/behaves differently in ‘spirit’ and in ‘body’ is not because he/she is in denial or not awake. It’s because it’s not them in the spirit. It’s a hard pill to swallow but the sooner you swallow it the sooner you can be released from bondage.

It’s very important to understand the difference between lust and love. I always thought lust was a sexual thing but it’s more than that. Lust is a DESIRE - a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen. The connection Twins feel is a strong desire (lust) created by familiar spirits attached to the twins and they serve as a channel between the twins. The familiar spirits are able to attach to you because of the desires you have in your heart. The twin you love with everything you got, who you will do anything for is your IDOL and this leads to the sin IDOLATRY.

I learned quite a lot during this experience but can't share everything here but the most important thing to know is that the Twin Flame is a counterfeit, knock-off spiritual love. The real deal is Jesus. The twin experience lures you in with wonders and signs and the deep connection plus the false promise of higher self/ love & union keeps you trapped. The only one you are suppose to unite with in spirit is Jesus.

Twins cannot unite for two reasons:
1) they were never meant to unite
2) To keep people in spiritual bondage

PLEASE KNOW THAT UNION IS NOT POSSIBLE
AND
IT IS POSSIBLE TO WALK AWAY FROM YOUR TWIN WITH JESUS.

M
4/19/2018 11:00:10 pm

There is an eternal difference between lust and love. You LOVE your twin flame. It forces open your heart. The nature of the heart is fundamentally at odds with the nature of darkness. The two can not work together. The truth of your twin can not be denied because it comes from the heart. It had nothing to do with dark spirits. Darkness often follows it because the light that shines attracts the dark {just as the brightest beings go through a lot of darkness as they balance out the opposites in the universe).

Do not use Jesus as a place to hide from things. Spirits can not make you love. That much is true. Adieu

CATHERINE
7/31/2018 01:24:02 pm

M, quite honestly I was attracted to 'my twin' by the two aspects initially. The addiction and the beautiful true love. I did see his soul and I did feel the amazing spiritual connection. But both he and I also harbored the same abandonment and betrayal traumas which were acting like crazy magnets. And I can say today that only the dark aspect (the trauma) was the one acting and feeling like a strong bond. The other aspect, the true love aspect, actually feels free and expansive. As I healed from trauma I am now in this latter energy, fully unattached to any particular outcome, of any kind. I truly no longer care about union with him (or with another). I am in peace with it all.

BD
4/21/2018 10:05:52 am

I read your article of dismantling the twin flame myth and I wish I could agree. I am personally not or better said, WEREN'T religious, and I am in my 50's. I have had deep love experiences, being loved and loved others myself. Until I met my twin flame. Once our bodies touched (shoulders, when giving a casual hug), a strange surge of energy took over my body and mind. Like I stepped on electric wire. My telepathic ability opened. Consciousness too. I felt intense connection and out of the body sex many times. I could hear him at times very clearly saying things randomly (was he speaking to me?). If he were to contact me I KNEW. I felt what he was feeling. We were picking up on each other's anxieties and weeping for weeks in deep pain that was brought by this connection: childhood wounds, shame. I don't want to necessarily be with him, it is not about it. My childhood wounding came up with a surge, pains I did not I have had. Horrifying feeling of shame. I saw mine and his inner children! I saw his deep woundings. How do you even tell this to someone without risking that they never speak to you because either your are a "witch" or insane. He ended up cancelling on me because he was terrified, and I knew the moment he decided to cancel. He TOLD me so in my mind. Then I cancelled on him because I was terrified of facing that live energy. I saw him so far 1x after this phenomenon occurred. I was uncomfortable bringing up my experience, because I did wasn't sure of his state of mind and emotions. So I gently probed and yes, he likes me too - he was probing too, but not like just plain earthly lover, wanting a date or sex. He is involved with another person and might marry them. I don't have to be with him, but I am fascinated what the hell this connection is. I read and looked up and it is coming up as a twin flame connection. It feels awfully familiar, like something we have done before (in meditation a black and white photo of our family came up, we also had kids), and I know him almost better than myself. I can't get mad at him, nor treat him in any other way than accept. I don't know when I will see him next or what will happen. I know we will intersect again. Complicated, eh? Do we mirror each other, do we share a soul, do synchronicity that was showering me when we met REALLY means what they say? I don't feel him anymore in a way I felt him in the winter when we have met, not synchronicity occurs anymore. I am calm, bathing in my newly found peace and self contentment . Was that the purpose of this encounter? To realize that I wasn't loving myself enough and to keep working on myself the way I do now? Will we be an item at some point in time? Will we ever openly speak of his experiences with this? He is on my mind 24/7 but not in obsessive way like he was in the winter. He is just on my mind. Telepathy ceased, I don't feel him feeling for me or talking to me either. I am thinking that he must have closed his heart too to me. I spoke to psychic several times to support my sanity, and she said that he has no courage to pursue me and the timing is wrong. I am okay with it because the intensity of feeling that I felt for him is unbearable and only very careful and very loving union would possibly work between us. I am not particularly patient and not sure if I could handle such a huge task. He is emotionally immature and broken in some way as I found him and probably will stay in this state for the rest of his life on Earth and I am not much interested in playing mother or fixing him. So if anyone has experienced this, what is it? I have felt angel guides and myself operating on a different dimension. Kind of a crazy good state. I am well and strong and wanted to share my experience with you - the notion of Twin Flame encounter is not to be dismissed.

Eva
5/1/2018 02:59:51 am

So it all actually means, that people want to be in a relationship with themselves, cause as the "twin flame" term says it's 2 of 1 soul. Quite narcissistic if you think rationally. Why would someone want to have sex etc with themselves? It's always the CEO or some wealthy or handsome/beautiful etc person who everyone thinks is their "twin". Maybe it's a hobo on the streets collecting bottles or begging for money or drug addict etc.
Maybe your other half of the soul is the lowest of the low?!
Do you ever think about that?
And if soul is "separated" to 2 different parts, how is that evolution or greatness or however you call it? That means you aren't whole, weak, not evolved anywhere if soul is separated.
It's not the next step of "spiritual growth"- being scattered to many parts. In time the term "twin flame" is changed a bit, but in reality it's very selfish concept. You can be with yourself in this life time, there's no need to create a fantasy "person" who, according to the term" is yourself.

M
7/29/2018 07:02:45 pm

No it doesn't. Stop projecting on things you know nothing about

Nodame link
6/12/2018 03:01:19 pm

I Just know that mother nature created a pair in everything for some reason. If we were sufficient by ourself, our way of reproduction would be different. We need to have a partner and have kids. That's natural. It's a good thing to love ourself suficienly , that's keep us apart from not healthy relationships but we need the other part to complete us, that's for sure.
I believe in the twin flame journey. The why is happening, I don't know and I think nobody knows yet. Connet with our soul, the best part of ourself, maybe, the other world trying to connect with us.....i don't know. I think is a test. We can fail and that's a bad news for the other counterpart but it's a risk... Sometimes you loose.
I just know TF it changes you into the coeur and you'll never be the same again... Probably a better person... Maybe that's the purpose...
A better person with sadness in their heart...

Drew
6/13/2018 06:49:38 pm

So glad to read this.
I had an amazing bond with a man on all levels physicaly, spiritually, emtionally and mentally. We are separate now, on and off for years. I kept meeting people who were like you have a twin flame, he's your twin.
My heart kept saying there is no such thing as a twin flame. You ARE the twin flame. You ARE complete already.
I had a vision of what soul mates are and I saw that we are all a joined to the source of life. That we are ALL one and the same. Other people are like mirrors reflecting back what we send out into the world.
If you reflect negative energy, you get into an relationshipship with someone who reflects your negativity back to you, this is a karmic relationship.
Depending on what you are putting out there is what you are getting back.
If you see yourself as complete and perfect, everything you are then you get a relationship with someone who also feels complete and perfect.
I actually, asked when I was 16 for an relationship that was true love and I won't settle for less so when this supposed twin soul came into my life he said "not until you love yourself'. I asked for the journey to love, I asked for that energy in my life because I wanted unconditional love. Which starts from loving yourself and who ever loves me loves me because I am reflecting love out into the universe. I AM LOVE.
You could say the twin flame love story is a love story with source.
I went to a twin flame seminar and they were talking about how amazing meeting the one is. As they talked I got a message come through '''They are not happy together, it is for show. I could sense a but bit of bitterness between the two and when he smiled at me it didn't feel warm, it felt forced then they tried to sell a reteeat to me.
I got a message saying 'Don't label your relationships, they are all Devine!'
I meditated on trying to connect with '''my twin twin' but was left wanting more so now I just meditate on my own energy and to connect with my soul.
Now! I can feel the unconditional love for life in all things. Now that is true love.
I will not let anyone in my life that prevents my light from shining.

STOP WITH THE LABELS!

M
7/29/2018 07:06:11 pm

If your heart genuinely felt that then he couldn't be your twin. If you have to label it, then it wasn't true to begin with. Doesn't mean that twins dont exist though.

Lauren Hutton link
7/31/2018 11:35:01 am

"What is the purest relationship of all? The relationship with yourself, first. What is the purest relationship with another Being, whether it is human or angelic? When they are two complete selves and don't need each other to complete themselves. Trying to complete yourself through another Being never works and sooner or later it will break up. But when two beings are sovereign, the love that can be shared and expressed - and the joy that can be experienced - is far beyond the old ways of relationships." -Masters in the New Energy, Adamus Saint-Germain, 2007

My new book - Thirty Days of Self-Love - is FREE here: www.becomingsarh.com

CATHERINE
7/31/2018 01:30:06 pm

Congrats on your new book, Lauren! ... And I fully agree with Adamus Saint-Germain - Feels great to read this on this blog of yours today. Thank you :)

Lauren
7/31/2018 01:32:19 pm

Thanks for sharing your beautiful story here, Catherine!

M
8/6/2018 01:46:20 pm

Catherine, I can feel the energy in your words and it is not the energy of twin flames. Believe me when I say you can feel incredible emotional and energetic bonds with others and love and addiction and attraction but that is NOT twin flame. Specifically, without any shadow of any doubt. Unhealed trauma often attracts its counterpart to express itself and in human sexual relationships this turns into various kinds of addictions and even co dependant love(or attraction).

None of this is twin flame though and that is what everyone here is trying to tell you. Just read the posts of people who have actually been through this. The twin flame phenomenon has been commercialised and put through through the new age machine so people start thinking in terms of it. But in reality it happens very VERY rarely. It is by degrees of magnitude bigger than soulmate bonds or even child-mother bonds. And it is not based in karmic debts. There is a mirroring that goes well beyond any unhealed trauma that happens between twin souls.

Many people think that they are in twin flame relationships only to be disappointed or jaded because they weren't. The popularity of the concept is the problem. Twin flames are real, but in the current time-space most people do not have them (and that is a blessing, believe me).

Lin link
8/13/2018 01:04:33 am

100% incorrect. Twin flames absolutely DO exist, but rarely do those who are unawakened and not navigating this relationship understand it. Nor are they able to comprehend that the 'dysfunction and abuse" of a twin flame relationship is actually 2 people guiding each other to strip away the 3D & societal programming, and paradigms of conditional love, ego and inner wounding like that that is seeping through this entire article. Twin Flames, together, guide eachother through these stages into mastery, unconditional love and consciousness in order to help the planet reach the same.

M
8/14/2018 01:02:28 am

Watch this please

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZwigvPXzU8

If you are skeptical of twin flames. It addresses a lot of the skeptics on this page.

Kyle
8/17/2018 03:41:36 pm

Reading the article and the subsequent comments, I can't help but observe that the issue isn't the concept, but the words that are chosen to describe it. You can call it whatever you want but it really doesn't matter all that much. When you feel it you feel it. I never viewed the existence of a twin flame in the light you are casting it in the article, I have only ever read other articles on the internet describing it one of two ways, either it is someone who has experienced this and those descriptions vary wildly, and then there are people who probably haven't experienced it based on the homogeny by which they all describe it. Like you have, a completion of the soul, like a movie or something. obviously that isn't a real thing, I might be off in thinking most human beings are aware that that sort of thing doesn't really exist or happen. It would only take a few moments of thought.
I guess my point here is that you see to be bringing a topic up and juxtaposing it with a concept of self love (for profit) and the two things aren't really all that congruous. I think self love is pretty ubiquitous, since, ya know, you are yourself at all times you are alive. the whole twin flame thing is its own thing, it's pretty undeniable when you experience it. I think it's too complex to put into words, most of what you feel in that instance is a sort of intuitive supra-consciousness memory. I also kind of agree with some of the comments that your stance on self love is pretty egocentric, but whatevs, you do you. I mean, it's all you, it's not all your ego, pretty much nothing is, but i dunno, the ego is like a tool you can customize a little once you realize what the goal is. anyway, not even sure why I felt compelled to write this.

Jamie
9/26/2018 10:34:20 pm

I think this is well said Kyle, and I have similar thoughts on it. I'm struck between feeling a bit relieved to take the pressure off myself by having a moment to not obsess over the twin flame goal, and enjoyed reading this article a lot to realize that the inconsistencies and stress I felt in my own readings about Twin Flames and relationship issues might be caused by just this same belief: maybe it's more of a "fairy tale" than I had been wanting to see? Yet, I also question the "self love" push not because I don't agree with it, but, interestingly enough, I was involved with someone (who was a "is this a twin flame?" person haha) who fascinatingly scoffed at the common "trend" he saw of people proclaiming that you have to love yourself, saying that human beings already know how to love themselves. He was saying finding/expressing love is all about another person and sacrifice... anyway it was more than that and I had a fun long talk with him. I think maybe he was confusing self-obsession with self-love (aka: don't go telling yourself you're a piece of shit all day, haha)... but his idea that self-love is born into human beings I think was spot on. And has me also questioning and feeling lonely when I hear about the "quest for self love". I want to treat myself well, and haven't always. yet I also see how I (and others) can get into a spiral of navel-gazing, which I find causes me great anxiety whenever it gets too frequent. Yet, I'm terrified of "not maturing or growing or healing" and so then the self focus starts again. Anyway, it's all fascinating! I do know that when I've given to others (in particular even a beloved, elderly cat I had who i took care of) I really feel I understood love and felt more at peace than I did when I tried to just "love myself"... though I also have meditated and spent time alone and reached great calm and love. I dunno.. I find I'm caught between worlds and beliefs. I don't want to be adamantly told to love myself and be alone, because I quite like the company of another human being haha. But then, of course there are toxic energies and/or behaviors and reaching out for people to fix you never feels good either (ie: Prince Charming Twin Flame? etc). Who's to say. I suppose I'm writing too much, haha.

Tyler
8/23/2018 08:25:15 pm

This was a great piece. I'm not saying twin flames are real or not real. What I am saying is I've seen so many people get suckered into this mythology of the twin flames. They're being led to slaughter by social media spiritual experts that are running telling everyone they're all going to meet their twin flame if they just believe. I mean really? I have to say that because there are so many naive delusional people that are following this and commenting with me too! And hearts and Yes! They're so desperate. But that was the same market that made Valentine's Day commercialized and famous. Business people knew they could make money from these sorry saps. Sorry no offense.

123
9/7/2018 10:55:41 am

Says one more person who has never experienced the real thing. It was a great piece was it? Great how? Because it falls in line with your NON-experience of the twin flames? Funny how EVERYONE who is commenting on this doesn't have the slightest CLUE about what twin flames really are. NONE of them have experienced it and yet they are the ones with the biggest expertise on this. What a joke.

Lauren
9/7/2018 11:44:50 am

The funniest part of all of it is I wrote this blog post in 10 minutes 2.5 years ago and it stirs shit up for people whose names are 123 and whatever. It's hilarious because if you truly know something deep within the consciousness of your being ness you never need to defend it. You simply are still and know. Everyone is allowed to have their version of enlightenment and you're simply at peace with the diversity in opinion. You don't have to YELL and shake a fist at anyone. In realization, there are no mirrors; there is only self. You are NOT going to find out who you are looking into the eyes of another. You can have fun trying though. And I so honor that experience, Mr or Ms 123.

123
9/12/2018 11:52:32 am

""You are NOT going to find out who you are looking into the eyes of another. You can have fun trying though.""

But aren't you denying people's experience who have experienced exactly that?

How can you honor someones experience by denying it? And so vehemently as that?

Jamie
9/26/2018 10:46:10 pm

I find it amusing that this article is about not looking for external sources (human or otherwise) for self realization or love or completeness, and yet so many of us are here in order to see/read something outside of ourselves to help us decide something. Or learn something, or feel something... At least I speak for myself haha. It's one of the paradoxes about all of this self healing journey. I'm constantly searching and reading to learn and be guided, yet being told that you cannot look outside yourself to be truly guided. Which i agree with and have experienced as well in deep meditation on my own (having insight, etc). Yet, the people telling us to not look outside are sharing something to "outsiders" in order to presumably help, or guide or shape in some way, haha. I just find it fascinating. maybe looking for someone to "complete" you can be harmful, and yet as human beings, looking into our world for various behaviors, or lessons - whether in relationships, direct words, actions, books, movies etc - in order to learn about (and ideally improve ourselves) is so incredibly human and natural, isn't it? It's how we learn as children; watching our environment. When we get older we can do "hmm, I see/read XYZ, how does that resonate with me? Yes or no?" and then go in one direction or another. I'm not arguing against being centered and self empowered, simply find it curious that this "you wont' find anything externally!" sentiment I read a lot feels slightly inaccurate. The love of animals or other people (outside myself) has given me a good understanding of how to be a better human, many times. Having people in my life (whether I yank them un-ceremoniously and addictively or they fall into my lap when I'm centered in myself) ends up teaching me a hell of a lot. And yet so does meditating and getting the hell away from needing anyone sometimes for a while, haha. Maybe I misunderstand, but I just find it interesting.

Ella
10/16/2018 06:07:05 pm

Hello Lauren. I typed ending this twin flame nonsense. And found your site. Reading the first paragraphs. And come to your book about Sah'r. And click the link. Do you know that Sah'r is the name that came to my lips after an experience lived? And ever since, every night I talk to this entity that I consider my guide? To end up here must be with a purpose. And I am looking forward to reading all your blogs. I'll go and buy your book, also. The coincidence is too too big. My soul, my guide, Sah'r ... What were the odds I would ever hear this name. Very thinking of him now. I put my trust in,

Ted Bangs link
11/16/2018 10:38:42 am

I am so glad to see someone tell the truth about this crap. My wife of 40 years got involved with her "twin" who is a serious scam artist. She had an affair with him and left me. He is now trying to dump her but she still believes he is the one. I believe like you that if there is a twin flame it is yourself. I am an empath and unfortunately I feel her all the time even when she is making love with him! Kind of my hell on earth. If it had not been for all of these Twin Flame sites that encourage people like her to leave their spouse and follow their twin she would never have done this. Thank God there is one place that I can vent.

Jessica Rezende
11/17/2018 01:38:14 am

I don’t know where to start... other then this is killing me being away from my other half of my heart. This really hurts so much that I need to do molly just to feel love again.. I know it’s messed up but this is insanity. I can’t live without him but I can I’ve came this far. My heart is so broken and I don’t know if I can handle this I hate ever second that goes by. It’s negative but it hurts I keep using and somehow it hurts even more then the pain before because I get the PTSD of pain from when we used to use mdma together... guess it’s obvious why we are flames but ouch I need a band aid or something :( pray for my ass

M
11/20/2018 02:09:05 pm

Stop using. Love does not want you to hurt and it is love for him that is inside you. Just accept that you love him and that its ok to feel the way you do, however you feel right now, its ok. Take care of yourself.

BJS
12/4/2018 02:20:16 pm

I know this is an older post and it has sort of been beaten to death in the comments, but I just wanted to add my $0.02, I am a twin. I think i first heard about the concept of twin flames around 2014. I am a very spiritual person, and my journey began in the church. My experience with Christianity has made me EXTREMELY skeptical towards all spiritual movements, especially the new age. When I first heard about the concept of TF, I couldn't roll my eyes hard enough. It sounded ridiculous. 3 years later, I was in exactly THAT... and I VERY reluctantly started to revisit the concept. Labels aside, this concept is real. I know it because i am living through it. My twin is a professional therapist... and she was also an extreme skeptic about this. She's not anymore. When it happens to you, there is no mistaking it.

Lauren Hutton
12/4/2018 02:26:25 pm

BJS, thanks for sharing your story here. Appreciated how respectfully you did so. To each their own and it sounds like you have a healthy relationship with your partner. I have an amazing partner too! Whatever labels doesn’t matter. That self love and respect can be discovered through many paths. I loved myself first and my partner showed up later. Best to you both! Lauren, the owner of this website.

Kazandra
12/12/2018 05:02:50 pm

So do you think a twin who passes on because they couldn't continue to live in their bodies could come in as a walk in?

Lauren
12/13/2018 09:56:11 am

I think it's highly unlikely and perhaps its a good time to focus on self and the now. When you allow the mind to go down the rabbit hole of future potentials and possibilities, you deprive yourself of what's right here, right now --- you in the awakened state, embarking on the greatest adventure imaginable -- the RETURN TO SELF. How glorious a moment to take a deep breath and enjoy this life you chose, Zakandra!

Jenny
12/28/2018 06:15:18 pm

I read this post and the various comments with building amusement. So many people claiming to be "beyond ego," to "not care" about what others think--and then behaving in such a way as to make it obvious they do. Is it possible that everyone's "right"? That the author's conversation with "Yeshua" (not even going to comment on that when the article, in itself, is fairly bursting with equally impressive examples of pomposity) and his ensuing "guiding" silence spoke to her own truth while others have received equally valid "guidance" of their own. Why is everyone arguing about the validity of their own knowing?

Clearly this: "It's hilarious because if you truly know something deep within the consciousness of your being ness you never need to defend it. You simply are still and know. Everyone is allowed to have their version of enlightenment and you're simply at peace with the diversity in opinion." is the most bogus of all statements on this page because (duh), if you "simply are still and know," you don't generally need to further your position in a blog post.

Sometimes just admitting you don't know--and allowing others the grace to not know, too...is the most enlightened act of all.


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